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Essence Bubbles/Trickster Pops Them All
This was submitted from an anonymous member of the community.
https://lpamm.com/my-secret-frustration/
“Kelly, you don’t know much much I love having this way to share my frustration. I think I should be braver and want to talk as myself but I can’t say that I am – call me chicken?
Essence, my creative self as I’ve come to understand it, has all of the best ideas and I do feel the bubbles when I’m around you and others. I can’t seem to follow through on anything and it’s all because of the negative thoughts in my head. You call it Trickster and I feel tricked so it fits.
I’m tired of getting excited and dropping the ball. Today I’m feeling so low about it. My partner is exasperated with me spending money on ‘business’ that never happens. If I spend more than a little at a time I know he’ll blow his top – so I can’t take your big offer even though I want to.
How do you deal with Trickster? How do you make essence stronger? I feel if I don’t figure this out I’m going to give up.”
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2 Replies
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My video reply!
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Oh boy can I relate to the anonymous person that submitted this secret frustration!
Dealing with trickster isn’t easy for me. Well, that’s not entirely true… there are times I can deal with her easier than others. Sometimes all it takes is a little flick to get her off my shoulder, and other times it takes some good ole butt kicking from Kelly ;-)
But the one thing that has made a huge difference in my life is simply just being aware/conscious of when trickster has come out to play. And then, as a part of Kelly’s community and group coaching, I can talk about it with everyone and move through tricksters muck (if I CHOOSE to… there have been times I haven’t pushed past it & let trickster stop me from things).
The other thing that has been key for me is, like Kelly said in her video reply to you, to surround myself with others living in their essence. Essence definitely calls forth essence and it’s easier for me to operate in essence when I’m surrounded by similar people.
As for giving up – I hope you don’t. It’s hard, without knowing more of your situation, to offer any suggestions/resources to help you. If it’s mindset or business coaching you need help with, I’d definitely recommend working with Kelly…somehow, someway!
